DBT Worksheets for Teens: 30 Coping Skills Pages in Plain Language
Simple, teen friendly tools for big feelings, hard moments and tricky conversations.
Overview
DBT worksheets for teens ages 12 to 18 that put the four skill areas into everyday words: staying in the present, getting through tough moments, making sense of feelings and getting along with others. The set has 30 undated pages and comes as a PDF in US Letter and A4, ready to download right away. Nothing is mailed.
Every skill lives on its own page, so your teen can take one small step at a time instead of reading a heavy textbook.
How these DBT worksheets for teens make skills stick
Each page offers a short explanation, a realistic example and room to practice. Teens learn to stop before reacting in four easy steps, settle the body with four fast resets, compare the pros and cons of acting on an urge, and plan the words for asking a parent or friend for something.
Tracking pages, including a feelings log, a weekly diary card and a review page, show which tools truly help. A calm-down plan keeps early signs, safe grown-ups and crisis contacts together in one place. Original wording with no acronyms makes each skill easier to recall in the heat of the moment.
Who these teen coping skills pages are for
- Teens ages 12 to 18 whose emotions rise fast and who want easy tools for tough moments
- Middle and high school students facing school stress, friendship drama, arguments at home or worry
- Parents and caregivers who want a calm, private set of pages their teen can use at home
- Teens who already see a counselor and would like extra practice between sessions
Clean design, easy printing
- Elegant, minimal look: white pages with soft blush pink details that save ink
- Wide margins all around, so nothing is trimmed on a home printer
- Two portrait sizes: US Letter at 8.5 by 11 inches and A4 at 210 by 297 mm
- No dates, so your teen can begin any time and move at a comfortable pace
- Fits a binder or clipboard, or can be spiral bound at a print shop
What's inside (30)
What is in the DBT worksheets for teens: 30 pages
- 1Cover showing the complete index of pages
- 2Start here, explaining how the set works, a map of all six sections with their page numbers, five tips and your reasons for starting
- 3The four skill areas (be here now, ride the wave, know your feelings, people skills), what each one is good for and where you might use it
- 4My goals and my team, twelve everyday struggles to check, what you want to improve, what you already do well, a small reward and a support list with six rows
- 5Three minds, a diagram of feeling mind, thinking mind and wise mind with examples, a current situation and what your wise mind would say
- 6Notice, name, join in, three mindfulness skills, six quick one minute ideas and a log for a week of practice
- 7Grounding with my senses, counting down from five things you see to one thing you taste, where to use it and how you felt before and after
- 8Facts, not judgments, three worked examples and seven rows to trade judgments for facts, plus gentler ways to speak about yourself
- 9Pause before I react, a four step routine of stopping still, backing off, taking in the scene and making a wise choice, with writing space and a box to fill in later
- 10Turn down the heat, four fast physical resets using cold water on the face, quick movement, long slow exhales and tensing then releasing muscles, plus an eight row log scoring how you felt before and after
- 11Pros and cons of giving in to an urge or holding back, how tomorrow might feel and what wise mind chooses
- 12Distract and comfort, six types of distraction with ideas and blanks for your own, plus soothing options for each of the five senses
- 13Accepting what I can't change, the facts that will not shift, what resisting them costs, kind things to tell yourself and what is still in your power
- 14My calm-down plan covering warning signs, five things to try alone, five calm places, friends to message, two trusted adults, a crisis line and emergency information
- 15Name the feeling, six feeling families of five words each, twelve body signals to check, a 0 to 10 intensity scale and what would help in this moment
- 16Feelings log, twelve rows tracking the day, the event, the feeling, its strength, your response and whether it helped, plus patterns you notice
- 17Feeling detective, six clues that trace a feeling from what happened just before it to how you felt after
- 18Check the facts, six steps from the real events to whether the feeling matches them, plus your next move
- 19Do the opposite, four examples linking a feeling, its urge and an opposite action, an eight step plan and scales for before and after
- 20Body basics tracker, a seven day grid for sleep, food, hydration, exercise, fresh air, screen time, breaks from the phone, energy drinks and downtime
- 21Good moments, little things you enjoy, bright spots from this week, a goal that matters, a tiny first step and things to look forward to
- 22Plan ahead for hard moments, five steps to rehearse a test, a difficult talk or an event, an exit plan and a scale for how ready you feel
- 23Ask for what I need, a six part script that walks through describing the situation, naming your feelings, making a clear request, explaining the benefit, keeping your voice steady and staying open to compromise, with sample lines
- 24Friendship and self-respect, four ways to protect the friendship and four ways to protect your self-respect, plus boxes to plan and to review
- 25How strongly to ask or say no, eight quick questions to answer, three intensity levels, different ways to decline and the exact words you plan to use
- 26Repair after a fight, five steps from what went wrong to what you will change, plus four calm ways to open the conversation
- 27Weekly diary card with ratings for sad, angry, worried and happy, urges, sleep, skills used in each area and one good moment, across seven days
- 28Rewind the moment, six steps to revisit a hard moment with curiosity rather than blame
- 29My skills toolkit, favorite skills for different feelings, skills you are getting better at, your counselor or doctor and crisis line information
- 30Weekly reflection, a 0 to 10 rating for the week, wins, what felt hard, a skill that worked, questions for a trusted adult and a plan for next week
Files & printing
Your download includes
- DBT Skills Worksheets for Teens, US Letter PDF (30 pages)
- DBT Skills Worksheets for Teens, A4 PDF (30 pages)
- Read Me First, a short guide to printing (PDF)
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Please note
- This set is a print-ready PDF rather than a hyperlinked digital planner. Most note taking apps can still open it so you can write on the pages.
- It is a digital product only. No physical item will be posted.
- Colors may look a little different on screen than on paper.
- These files are for your household only. Sharing, reselling or passing them on is not permitted.
- Digital files cannot be returned. If a file will not open or print correctly, email us and we will help right away.
- The pages teach and rehearse skills. They do not count as therapy or medical advice, cannot diagnose or treat any condition, and never replace a counselor, therapist or doctor.
- When a teen is struggling, feels unsafe or has thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a trusted adult or professional right away. In an emergency, contact your local emergency number or a crisis line.
How this was made
Designed and written by PetiteDiary. AI tools helped draft parts of the text, and some background scenes in the preview images were created with AI. Every page was designed, reviewed and checked before release.
Questions
Questions about the DBT worksheets for teens
What ages are these worksheets for?
They are written for teens ages 12 to 18, in plain, everyday language without acronyms.
Is there a DBT diary card included?
Yes. Page 27 is a weekly diary card for rating feelings, urges, sleep and the skills used over seven days, and you can reprint it every week.
Can my teen use these alongside counseling?
Yes, many families use them as practice between counseling sessions. They are a learning tool, not therapy, and do not take the place of a counselor, therapist or doctor.
Does the set include a crisis plan?
Page 14 is a calm-down plan with space for warning signs, trusted adults, a crisis line and emergency details, and page 29 also has room for crisis line information.
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